This is my worst performance ever. If
it wasn't for Kory being so cool and with it, it would have
been a complete mess.
This is also my worst attempt at transcribing an interview. If you want the real deal, listen to the sound file. Otherwise, make me sound smarter and read the interview.
The point of the story is, for those of you who don't know you,
Kory, which is unfortunately many, you have your own website,
and on that site, you do quite a few things, the least of which
is an extensive collection of images of bondage. How do you
get into something like that?
I was watching HBO and I saw a show called Real Sex and
it had a website in the area called fuckingmachines.com
and I thought, wow that looks really cool. And I checked it
out and I didn't work for them, and now I actually do, but I
started doing different modeling…and I played in the
BDSM world in my personal life so I thought why not try
and make some money and do some modeling. But it's not that
much of a pay off.
Let's say I'm some chick in suburbia,
with a half decent body and a half decent face, I'm kinda sorda
BDSM, what advice do you give to me?
I say do it for fun, don't do it for money, and be prepared
to come across a lot of flakes, a lot of perpetrators a lot
of sleazy guys. You really have to pick and choose and do your
research and it's a lot more output than input. As far as income.
A lot more maintenance, a lot more you're buying your own costumes,
you're buying your own makeup, you have to pay for all the travel
time. It equals out to probably less than $3 an hour.
Then why do it?
Cuz I enjoy doing it, it's fun. It's nice to see yourself in
different visions of these different photographers. Or to collaborate
and be creative and see yourself in different ways than you've
seen before. And plus, being suspended from a ceiling is just
fun. You don't get to do it in your everyday life.
Unless you've got yourself some really
strong ceiling girders.
It's not the kind of thing you suggest. You kinda hafta bring
that up slowly. I turned my boyfriend out, but that was a slow
Meaning he was not into
Oh, he didn't know anything about it. But I got him to build
stuff, and he built me a dungeon apparatus or different bondage
furniture. I got him to do that stuff, and he said, "Oh that's
kinda cool." And I'd leave him pamphlets…
Who makes pamphlets about bondage?
I'd leave him drawings and little information…cuz people think
it's all about people who like pain...and it's not about that…it's
screwing with and heightening your senses to new levels…it's
adrenaline junkies. New forms of sexuality cuz you've explored
all of them.
Hey, so you mentioned that you're going
to BondCon, what the hell is that?
BondCon is a fetish convention that happens every year. Where
all the bondage models and producers can have a place where
they meet up and network with each other. And show off their
talents. And it's a safe place where they can go and be with
their people. Cuz a lot of people are interested in the world
BDSM and they have a lot of misconceptions. Or they live
the online fantasy but they never really want to go there.
of which I'll just give a shout out to bondage
a gogo. I've been there a couple of times. Those people
are the nicest darn people I've ever met in my life.
A lot of people imagine the large mountain man with his fat
girl on a leash. And that's just not really how it is.
I met one woman that I talked to extensively
about making her own outfits and she was like the Martha Stewart
I mean it's a fun good creative outlet that you can
be yourself and feel sexy. You can be your own person and do
your own thing. It's a place where you can express your own
kinks, because America is so stuffy.
Your site is so explicit.
Really. You think so. I don't think it is.
Yeah, well you're naked.
Yeah, but they're no pink shots.
It's not up close.
It's not your normal porn site.
The point of the story is, I have a lot
of saliva, and you do a lot of shots with ball gags on your
site. Which for me is like a nightmare. What's something freaky
that you drew the line at and said, "I'm not going to do that."
I actually had someone call me from L.A. that was a "talent
scout." One of the many in the Los Angeles area. He's all excited,
"This gallery owner called me and said, 'I have this job for
you and I want this girl to do it.'" It [would be] me dressed
up like a bull in full body paint with horns and a strap on
dildo, and another female dressed the same, and a guy would
be dressed up like a cow, with udders and everything. And we
would do a domination dance, live performance in front of people.
And we would both end up fucking him in the ass with a strap
says, "guess what I got you $150." "Gee golly wow..."
He called me back and he says, "I can't believe it I got $200."
I'm like wow, I can pay my phone bill. I couldn't believe it.
And the poor little cow. He wanted us to do it at the same time,
so there would be two dildos in this poor little cow.
a) I would never do that
b) $200? Prostitutes make more, and I ain't no whore.
Does it ever make you ill how gross guys
It makes me completely disgusted the lines that have been said
to me. Like "nice tits," or they think just because I have more
explicit pictures on my web site that I'm a slut or a whore,
or I may want to date them. And that's so not true.
So [let's say] I meet you in a bar. Is
there anything I can say to you that gets me passed the first,
"No I ain't interested."
I put up that guard sometimes, but if you want to meet new people…Don't
treat girls as meat. Don't look at them like they're something
to obtain. My favorite line is, "do you know any good jokes?"
It always catches people off guard. I surprise people because
people think I'm going to be conceded or a bitch. I'm a guys
girl, I climb trees and shit.
I'm not transcribing the joke Kory tells.
You'll have to listen to the sound file for it.
You were briefly in a film Lurking
Lurking in Suburbia is a really awesome film and I did
a small part in it. It was my first acting experience. It's
a very small part but it should be a great movie.
Here are all the places you should go if you're interested in
- Kory's site.
- The people who are putting out Lurking in Suburbia.
- women having sex with machines.